ASK MARION – Why do I people please all the time?

Do you find that you sometimes behave in a way that you would love to stop but don’t how or even why you do it in the first place, then email me.

You may even find that you have a burning question about personal development … then let me help you. 

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ASK Marion replies are of course short pointers to start a conversation within yourself, not an exhaustive discussion of the issue.

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Why do I people please all the time

Jason,

  • What is interesting to me is that you notice that you are experiencing the pattern of the people pleaser.
  • You are making decisions based on the people outside of you.
  • You probably have beliefs around fear of abandonment and rejection and being good enough.

The way forward;

  • Something inside of you is showing you the people pleaser pattern so that you let it go.
  • If you are REALLY honest with yourself, are you good enough?
  • You have created a story around “not good enough”. Something is telling you that and these thoughts are’t true.
  • Go in the direction of the truth… be authentically you.
  • Drop the story you have created about yourself and the outside world. Be who you really are.

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