ASK MARION – Why do I attract men who use and abuse me?

Do you find that you sometimes behave in a way that you would love to stop but don’t how or even why you do it in the first place, then email me.

You may even find that you have a burning question about personal development … then let me help you. 

Email me your questions and I will upload your answers to the web site as soon as possible  

ASK Marion replies are of course short pointers to start a conversation within yourself, not an exhaustive discussion of the issue.

If you struggle with the same or a similiar life issue and would like to have a deeper conversation please get in touch with me. Don’t sit on it. I can help. 

Why do I always attract men that use me and abuse me?


  • You are giving out the same energy over and over again.
  • It’s like having a post-it note on your head that says “If you want to use me and abuse me, I’m your girl. My boundaries are non existent”
  • You have rogue beliefs around fear of abandonment and rejection. As well as not good enough.
  • You aren’t listening to the small voice inside of you that speaks the truth moment by moment.

The way forward;

  • Get really honest with yourself, listen to your truth
  • Start requiring more for yourself, you deserve it.
  • Most importantly, start learning to love yourself and then the magic happens.

If you have a question about how to navigate particular life issues, then email me

and if it is something I can help you with I will upload a video to my web site, my Facebook group “The Inner Wisdom

Coach and my YouTube channel of the same name.

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