As we move into a new year many of us are hoping for some improvement in our lives. I have noticed so often that we talk about other people taking responsibility but have never sat down and looked at us to see how that word fits in with our lives.
It is so much easier for us to blame something or someone else when our lives don’t pan out how we expected it to. If we ask “Who is to blame?” then we cast ourselves as a Victim and this leads to us giving away all our power. It allows us to stay stuck.
By owning what has happened, taking responsibility for it and being responsible for our futures we can chose to put our energy into making the right choices that will get the positive results that we want.
So, by saying I am 100% responsible for my life and how I experience it”, try answering these questions:-
Assigning blame, pointing the finger and asking ‘Whose fault is it?’ is a way of disowning parts of your life and giving away your power. Taking responsibility is about owning where you are in life and being able to move forwards and create a fun, compelling and fulfilling future.